One action too many...

People might try to be perfect and end up messing up everything. Is it because they lack confidence in themselves? Or is it because they are trying too hard? Are they trying to prove something? Or are they hoping for something? Hoping that they will always be irreplaceable and surpass all those before them.

Sometimes they might be faced with the cruel truth that those that they care about doesn't really understand what they need and want. And might even be told off.

When two people come together, doesn't it mean that whatever they do, they will have to spare a thought for the other? No one is an angel but then when they are told of things that they had done and the other is not really comfortable with it, don't they have to try to compromise? I guess there will never be a correct answer for all these. It's more of give and take and maybe even not having one's hopes up too high for anything at all. Like what my friend said, one should try to protect one self by telling themselves that they like the other a lot but have to try to keep their hopes low to protect themselves...but if it works out..it'd be great...*laughs* who am i kidding..when one falls in love, they will be so helplessly and hopelessly in love that they wish that what they are willing to do for the other party, the other party will receiprocate..and inadvertantly, their hopes will get higher and higher. But where do we draw the line between being possessive and hoping for too much?